Love letters to every member of the family, and my financial documents. I want them to stay positive, celebrate life, stay united and not to be in a state of chaos with all the paperwork after I leave.

I have also included my ideal afterlife celebration. I do not want to have any remains, I have pledged my body to research.

My wife and I enjoy building Lego sets together. When our son was born, we started building them around his bed. Now, it’s one of the ways we spend quality time together and I really cherish all of these moments.

I hope that next time, when he has kids of his own, he’ll carry on this tradition and build Lego sets with them too.

I’ve spent a lot of time with my family in the living room. When I’m no longer around, it might feel a little empty. I hope it stays bright and light, a space filled with good memories, not sadness.

So, I’ve put together a playlist of songs I love, so when my family hears them, they’ll think of me. I’ve also left some photos and personal items—represented by the keys—as gentle reminders of our time together.

I'll leave my wedding ring for my wife. It’s a symbol of the life and love we shared.

Through this ring, I want her to know, that when the time comes, she has my blessing to move forward. If someone new comes into her life, it’s okay with me.

I’ve always wanted to graduate, but never had the chance. So when I die, I hope to be dressed in a graduation gown.

These are the flowers I’d like in the coffin with me. If mimosa is hard to find, birds of paradise would be a good alternative.

This is the song I’d like played at my wake ”海鸥” (Seagulls). I love its lyrics; they’re uplifting and remind people not to give up.

These are called Akshintalu — sacred rice, traditionally placed on a person as a blessing. I want to take those blessings with me into the afterlife, along with flowers, and the feeling of having made someone’s day.

Whenever I do something nice, I buy myself flowers. To me, they represent a life well-lived, filled with small joys and good intentions.